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Divorce and 

break-up 

coaching


A divorce and break-up coach is a trained professional who helps individuals navigate this difficult and life-changing journey. I act as both a sounding board and a collaborative partner, providing guidance and support while remaining impartial.



Navigate your breakup with confidence

As your divorce coach, I can be invaluable during such a challenging time, helping you to manage your emotional stress, make informed decisions, and maintain a focus on your future rather than getting stuck in the past.


I am your personal guide who ensures that you can move forward with confidence and clarity, even in the midst of all the turmoil.

Pleased to meet you

Navigating a breakup or divorce is one of the hardest experiences anyone can face. I know this struggle intimately because I’ve walked that path myself. During my own divorce, I felt as though my world was crumbling around me. The feelings of fear and uncertainty were overwhelming, especially as I worried about the future for both myself and my children. 


Losing my business also compounded the profound despair, making decision-making extremely challenging. I required an impartial listener who could comprehend my distress and assist me in regaining control. Uncertain of whom to turn to at that time, I emerged from this experience four years later with a strong resolve to support others navigating breakups and divorces. I now offer individuals practical advice at all stages, employing proven techniques to help manage emotions, gain clarity, and focus on making crucial decisions about the future. Although divorce can be traumatic, adopting skills for managing challenges, fostering resilience, and rebuilding confidence presents an opportunity for transformation. It allows individuals to redefine their futures on their terms, gaining the confidence needed to embrace and thrive in their next chapter..

You can select a package that aligns with your current situation, and we can adjust it as your requirements evolve.

Comprehensive Weekly Support – Designed for individuals seeking thorough emotional and practical guidance throughout their journey.


  • Weekly 90-minute coaching sessions
  • Daily check-ins to provide consistent support
  • Availability through voice notes, email, phone, and video during office hours
  • Continuous assistance with mediation, legal processes, parenting decisions, and your child’s emotional wellbeing


This program offers intensive, high-support coaching for times of overwhelming circumstances or when you are prepared to rebuild your life with clarity and confidence.

Twice a Month Support – For individuals who require consistent structure and ongoing guidance.


  • Two 90-minute sessions each month
  • WhatsApp and email support between sessions
  • Assistance with preparing for legal meetings, managing conversations, or handling co-parenting situations
  • A practical plan designed to help maintain progress, even when circumstances are unpredictable

Ad Hoc Coaching – Immediate, focused support for a specific concern.


  • One 90-minute session based on your current needs
  • Guidance on boundaries, emotional talks, or sudden changes in separation
  • A space to steady yourself and respond confidently and with care
  • Ongoing Online Support – Flexible access between sessions.
  • Ongoing check-ins via WhatsApp and email
  • Help with difficult conversations, emotional reflection, or next steps



*Note: One Ad Hoc Session is required before using this option to understand your needs and priorities.*

Support for companies & employees

Having spent years in recruitment, I understand how heartbreak can affect staff dynamics. While support from colleagues is invaluable, it’s essential to have a clear plan in place. 


That’s where I come in—to help manage emotions, stabilise situations, and create a supportive environment where everyone can focus on their work, knowing that their colleague is receiving the care and guidance they need to rebuild their life. Together, we can embark on a journey towards healing and hope for our future.


Divorce and Separation doesn’t just stay within the home…

Divorce and separation are extremely traumatic, second only to bereavement. However, many companies fail to offer the vital and necessary support to affected employees. Providing team training and individual coaching for these situations addresses a significant gap in employee care. Stay updated with resources and create a compassionate company culture.


For a company, divorce and separation may result in:

·      Decreased focus and productivity

·      Increased absenteeism

·      Strained team dynamics

·      Withdrawal from professional responsibilities


These challenges result in costs for both individuals and businesses.

Offering support can enhance company culture and exhibit thoughtful leadership.

Why work with me?


I am on a mission to support others who are facing similar heartaches to what I endured. I have trained extensively to provide compassionate support during breakups and divorces, equipping myself with tools and strategies that empower individuals to reclaim their strength and clarity. 


I have also built a network of exceptional lawyers and financial advisors who are experienced in handling the sensitive complexities of toxic relationships and abuse. Together, we can ensure that no one has to walk this difficult path alone.

Your new beginning starts here

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